Changes that affect loved one’s !!
Being one’s priority isn’t going to be on the same track all the time. Imagine us being the same as we were born till today! Will it work or will it even be possible, Nah! In some cases, we are framed to be in that same shit hole where we don’t like to survive. But it’s not about survival but our existence matters.
I guess that my gist gave all due respect to my readers of what my story is going to be about. Now let’s jump deeper into the topic we are about to put our heads together.
“I was only their option but not a priority”
In recent times this phrase just hit me harder than I was hurt. It was like how they fool us by fake promising that they will give or take us where ever we want and get done with the work they need &just disappear! Isn’t it worse? Just think for a minute. This is what I feel right now! We don’t ask the other person to make us an important figure in their life. All we request is that just to give a thought about us. Everyone won’t have a whole bunch of well-packed friends! Few are left with less and few even without those well-packed bunch. “All the lunch boxes aren’t filled with same food or even with same quantity”. All I want that is, we should learn to see things the same rather than grading it, which makes us prioritize the top graded person. Do you think prioritizing among people is good in all cases? Just remember that Not all the people we prioritize are the perfect fit for a jar! you too commit mistakes my dear!
We learn from mistakes but what if in some situations we are misunderstood or contrived to go by the agreement of defeat! Doesn’t it sounds stupid! I totally object to it. One is allowed to do how much ever mistakes he/she wants to do in their life. But when it happens between the two of them, one automatically goes down-to-the-earth. That is what is called adjustment & forgiveness. I’m I stating it condign, am I?
All sheep can’t gaze in one same spot. all have different spots and different thoughts. Yes, Let’s start valuing the thoughts of other people too. Just to make it clear, All the good souls who are coming back each time when other leaves only because the love you and they don't want to lose you! Think before when you react to a certain scenario. Just take a minute to share something with your loved one. Love is what they all need from you. Asking questions frequently, Doesn’t mean that you’re in the Interpol investigation. It might just be to know that you’re somewhere safe and secured.
So, understand the difference between love and suspecting. People who love you truly never break you or even leave you after committing an unforgettable sin. This is what I call it as LOVE!
One simple and last message,
“Love without expectations stay like a stain in a cloth!”
With love,
Ashwin Rajendran.
Thanks for sparing your time. This shows your love towards me!
